Gemstone Engagement Rings

Engagement Ring History & Symbolism

• The tradition of wearing gold rings as tokens of love on the third finger of the left hand began in ancient Egypt, because gold, as the substance of the sun was a potent symbol of eternity.
• The ring finger was long thought to contain the vena amoris, the love vein leading directly to the heart.
• For the ancient Romans, the ring was a token of "earnest money," proof that the groom could support the bride. Two rings were presented: one at a betrothal ceremony and one at the wedding itself creating our tradition of separate engagement rings and wedding rings.
• Signet rings with engraved gold or gems were the most popular betrothal rings in Roman times: they represented authority to act in the husband's name, giving the wife equal authority. Some rings had tiny keys attached symbolizing the family home and possessions.
• Although diamond became the most popular engagement ring gem in the nineteenth century, it isn't the only choice. The tradition in royal families to choose colored gemstone engagement rings is more popular than ever as more couples look for a unique ring with personal meaning.

Judging the Quality of Engagement Rings

• The center gem is the most important value factor for an engagement ring.
• Although the color of the center gem has the most impact on value, the quality of the cut has a big impact on beauty and may not add much to the price.
• If the quality you love is out of your budget, you can choose a smaller size gem or a more affordable gemstone variety.
• Different gem varieties have different densities: a one-carat emerald is a lot bigger in size than a one-carat sapphire: check the millimeter size to get an exact measurement of diameter.

Learn More

• Learn more about gemstones in our Gem Library.
• Get inspired by the Top Ten Celebrity Engagement Rings.
• Make sure the ring fits: here's How to Find Her Ring Size.
• Learn more about the royal tradition of gemstone engagement rings in Engagement Rings Fit for a Queen and Kate Middleton's Crown Jewel.